The Controlling Partners Inventory includes 36 items that asl respondents whether or not communication technology has been used to monitor or control partners in romantic relationships.
Reference: Burke, S. C., Wallen, M., Vail-Smith, K., & Knox, D. (2011). Using technology to control intimate partners: An exploratory study of college undergraduates. Computers in Human Behavior, 27(3), 1162-1167. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.chb.2010.12.010
Link: https://doi.org/10.1016/j.chb.2010.12.010